So about two months ago a student showed me a craigslist ad asking for a harmonica player to play Pachelbel's Canon in D at a wedding. The experience was interesting enough to share with you.
I emailed the bride. I asked her what I needed to know to quote a price. It was an hour away from my house,each way. I would need to provide amplification, I would need to buy the sheet music and learn the piece. I would need to have another song for the wedding party march and another for the walkout music plus 15 minutes of waiting for the wedding to start music. I would need to wear a nice button down shirt and slacks. I quoted $250.
"We didn't expect to spend that much on a harmonica!"
I asked what they'd be willing to spend. I said I wanted to help them, but please remember it took years to learn the craft, plus how to read music. It would be 3 hours away from home, where a wife and baby and mortgage waited. The sheet music would cost money. It would take an hour to buy the music. It would take at least 10 hours of rehearsing to get ready. Amplification costs money.
I didn't hear back so I assumed it was lost. I told my top students about the gig, maybe they could get it.
Two weeks ago, I got an email saying they were willing to spend my price. Besides taking care of a baby, chores, 4 bands and around 30 students a week and a group lesson every Saturday, I also have taken on 2 unusual music projects that perhaps I will share with you when their stories are done. Plus I hadn't finished my taxes, which when self employed doing by yourself is tough! Basically I was beyond swamped and this would possibly sink me. Still, $250 is $250. I said yes.
I rarely get nervous about performing. Now, I had 3 performance situations that I was nervous about. I could feel stomachaches!
I bought the music. I listened to a video of a diatonic harp player the bride sent me that she liked. The diatonic player was improvising on the theme, it was nothing like my version of the music. The bride said it was the speed she wanted.
Although Pachelbel's Canon in D is leagues easier than other classical pieces I have learned, there is still a very complicated eighth note passage in the middle that at her speed, I could only hit around 50% of the time. One night, I played it for my wife who said that it sounded uncomfortably fast. I agreed with her and slowed down that section. We both agreed it sounded much better. I then decided to screw the bride's tempo, I would play the entire piece with a goal of comfort and beauty. That really was the turning point. I came up with a nice version, in my opinion.
I chose 10 romantic songs out of the real book and read through each a couple of times. I made sure I really had the walk songs down.
Today I arrived on time and the wedding coordinator acted professionally with me. Although a beautiful space, it was very small so my amp stayed in the car. After playing almost all my romance tunes, they said it was time to start. After playing two verses, no one had walked down the aisle. I stopped. Someone let me know they needed 5 more minutes. I finished my chosen songs. Luckily I had brought a real book with me. They whisper it will probably be another 15 minutes.
A half an hour later I had read every romantic song I could find and even a few where I was like "I cannot remember the lyrics. Is this romantic or sad? Screw it, I'm playing it." When the wedding party started coming out, I played the walk song until they stopped coming. Then a minute later, they cued me that there was still lots more of the wedding party to come out! I restarted the song again. Finally they let me know it was time for the bride.
Remember it was a small place? I basically had gotten through the first line Baa daaa daaa daa da da daa daaaa and the bride had made it down the aisle. All that practice for nothing! Perhaps I will record it for youtube this week.
Unlike normal gigs where you get to hang around the audience to get
kudos, only the preacher and the coordinator were left to talk to me.
The preacher took my card and asked if he could put me on his website
for recommended wedding players. The coordinator did not have my
money! Rather than run around the wedding trying to figure out who the
bride's father is and interrupt his picture taking, I went home and
sent the bride an invoice and said wait until after the honeymoon.
Hopefully this story has two happy endings and not a sequel!
Michael Rubin
Michaelrubinharmonica.com