WHEN IT'S NOT A JAM There are situations where a band is working and I'd like to jump up for a couple of tunes. I know I'm capable, but they don't. Respectfully asking to join them is usually met with "we don't do that," or a polite, non-specific, "yeh, maybe we'll call you up." (Yeh, maybe.)
PLAY FIRST, THEN ASK To overcome their guard against the unknown, I just wait for the end of a set. Greet a band member with a big smile and a compliment. Play them a lick. Now the unknown part is out of the way. Takes a little courage, but usually works.
What is your experience?
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