Hardness shouldn't have anything to do with it, as long as the reed plate is
harder than your embossing tool, which should be the case anyway.
Any difficulty in embossing should come either from the shape of the reed slots
(making it hard to fit in your embossing tool)
or the texture/roughness of
the reed plate (it might be too smooth to rub off metal from your embossing
tool or to hold that metal after you emboss).
Then again, I'm not really sure that I do my own embossing correctly, so there's a good chance that I'm wrong on the above points.
From what you have said, I guess that your efforts have been ineffective butyou have subjectively convinced yourself that the leakage is reduced. I hope this rather harsh analysis is wrong. I will be accused of being unkind.
I hope others will chime in.................
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